What will happen to my claim over the marital home, should I leave the home prior to getting a divorce?

Question: What will happen to my claim over the marital home, should I leave the home prior to getting a divorce?

Answer: Generally your claim over the matrimonial home is not affected by your decision to leave the home. However, people can live in the same home and still be separated so long as they are living separated lives in this environment. It is often important to remain in the matrimonial home for a variety of reasons.  These include but are not limited to maintaining a relationship with your children, maintaining the residence, and maintaining your financial stability and minimizing expenditures.  On the other hand, it may be worthwhile to leave the matrimonial home if you can afford it, as it often relieves tension between the parties.  If you leave the matrimonial home, this will not impact on your rights and entitlements to share in the assets.  This decision can affect your relationship with your children and what the results may be for custody.

Provided that you are a joint owner of a property or defined as a spouse under the Family Law Act, you can apply for exclusive occupation of the matrimonial residence and use of the contents.  A spouse is somebody who is married or has been living with the other party for a period of at least 2 years in a continuous relationship who is not married.

The residence at issue can be owned or leased by one of the parties or both parties.  It is not guaranteed that a person will receive exclusive occupancy.  The person applying for exclusive occupancy will have to establish that shared use of the home is a practical impossibility and that the applicant is on balance the preferred occupant.

What is a parenting coordinator?

Question: What is a parenting coordinator?

Answer: The Family Law Act allows for guardians to agree or the court to order that a qualified professional be appointed to assist guardians in implementing aspects of their parenting plan and making agreed to or ordered decisions about the plan. The agreement or order is generally limited to two years and the decisions of the co-ordinator are binding unless a guardian can establish the decision did not consider material evidence or fails to apply the law. Care should be taken on agreeing to such a process as often co-ordinators are busy and hard to see in a timely way and once they make a decision you may likely be stuck with one you don’t agree with, with limited court review. On the other hand for people with limited resources and communication issues the co-ordinator approach can be an efficient way to resolve parenting issues.

What is collaborative law?

Question: What is collaborative law?

Answer: Collaborative law is a process whereby parties focus in on getting a negotiated settlement and each have their own lawyer but the understanding is that each lawyer is focused on reaching a settlement and cannot act further for the parties if proceedings do not result in a settlement and the parties have to go to court.  In the collaborative process, the lawyers may engage another lawyer to mediate and may engage experts as required like valuators for land or other property or a counsellor or psychologist to deal with custody issues.  Routinely, the parties share the costs of these expenses with the focus being to avoid court proceedings.

What is arbitration?

Question: What is arbitration?

Answer: Arbitration is a process whereby the two parties to a family law dispute agree that they need a third party to resolve an issue between them but wish to note go to court and will hire a third party (usually a senior lawyer or retired judge) to decide the issue for them. The advantage of this approach is that two parties to a family law dispute can usually get to an arbitrator faster than going to court and subject to the direction by an arbitrator can tailor the evidence they will call to their specific needs. Often parties will attend with their own counsel and arbitration is often effective where there are a few discrete issues to resolve.